Man- A Story Of A Sacrifice

This is a post that i found online.  Wanted to share it with you all.


A man is a beautiful part of God’s creation who starts compromising at a very tender age.

He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

He sacrifices his dreams for just a smile on his parents face.

He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the lady he loves just to see her smiling.

He sacrifices his full youth for his wife & children by working late at night without any complain.

He builds their future by taking loans from banks & repaying them for lifetime.

He struggles a lot & still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife & boss.

His life finally ends up only by compromising for others’ happiness.

If he goes out, then he’s careless

If he stays at home, then he’s a lazy

If he scolds children, then he’s a monster

If he doesn’t scold, then he’s a irresponsible guy

If he stops wife from working, then he’s an insecure guy

If he doesn’t stops wife from working, then he’s somebody who lives on wife’s earnings.

If he listens to mom, then he’s mama’s boy

If he listens to wife, he’s wife’s slave

Respect every male in your life. U will never know what he has sacrificed for you.
19th November, International men day.

The Old, The Beautiful.

“When I was your age, sometimes me and my friends used to park our car outside the girls hostel,  and whistle to every girl who passed by.. We were a bunch of screwed up kids in those days..”, an 86 year old man.

Have you ever looked at an old person and wondered how their lives were when they were young..?? Well I do, every time an old person passes by.

Old people, they are the most beautiful creatures of this world. So peaceful, so calm. Maybe the story is different from the other side. But, looking at them makes you wonder how their lives would have been. Their experiences, their adventures, their tragedies, their happy moments, etc. We’re so busy with our lives that we just don’t even bother to look at them while they pass by. Well, they were the same at our age; they also did the same things that we do now.

The elders of our society are full of surprises. Don’t think of them less as they are old. Take some time of your busy life, sit with them and ask them about their lives. Who knows, you might get amazed.  After all, they lived a long life, so, they definitely have a lot of stories to share. It might be crazy, might be awesome. Might even be weird, or sometimes, sad.  Sit with them, listen to their stories, and share your stories as well. For those of you who don’t know, they can be the best listeners, the best advisers, the best teachers, and the best of friends.

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Getting old is in inevitable. Everyone will reach that stage at some point. So, do crazy stuffs while you’re young.  Create some memories, some stories, as, You Only Live Once.

Hope when I reach that stage, I too have some amazing stories to share with the next generation…

653 Dead in just FIVE MONTHS...!!!

Okay, I guess the last few months had been really unlucky for the Malaysian airlines. And now, the new addition is the Algerie Airlines.. 

The Air Algerie flight that went missing and later on was confirmed to have crashed, had 110 passengers on board and 6 crew members…

 And then, there’s the Mysterious Malaysian flight MH370 that disappeared on March 8, and was concluded to have ended in the Southern Indian Ocean, and the saddest part of this flight is that, till now, there has been no confirmation of any flight debris, and no crash sites has been found. It had 227 passengers and 12 crew members on board presumed dead..  

And last but not the least, the Malaysian airlines flight, MH17 that lost contact with the base and later on, was shot down by a surface-to-air missile, launched by Ukraine rebel on 17^th July, just 131 days after the incident of its Brother, MH370, had all 298 passengers including flight attendants, dead…

All of these incidents bring down to a total of 653 people dead in plane crashes, just in the last five months… Now, this is unbearable, unbelievable and just a lot to take in… All these incidents are now making travellers think twice before choosing to travel by air.. Even I’m a bit scared about my journey on 30^th July.. But it’s just a 1 hour and 45 minutes journey from one state to another, what can possibly go wrong…  Right..?? And I don’t have any kind of anger or anything like that, on the Malaysian Airlines or Air Algerie for those incidents.. It can happen to anyone… You just don’t know..  But, the only thing that makes me sad is to think about what all those passengers might have gone through during the crash, what would have been their thoughts then and what their family members are going through right now. Specially the members of the mysterious missing flight MH370 with no clue of its crash or passengers yet..

May Their Souls Rest In Peace.. Amen.

FRIENDS..!! A Gift Of God Or A Curse Of The DEVIL.. 3:)

Friends..!! A gift of God or a curse of the Devil.. Well, that depends on the kind of friends you choose to be with.. You can’t always understand who’s what…  But if you are intelligent enough, then, you definitely can distinguish between them.. It’s simple..!! One who cares, will be there for you in every turn of your life, even if you are sad or broke.. And the others will only be there at the happy turns of your life and when you have your pockets full…

Well, I always walk alone…  I mean, I have friends..But I never keep them close to me… And I have a big trust issue.. They think I’m their friend and I make them think so.. But, at the end, I know who’s what.. And Now a days, no one’s really your friend.. They all want something from you.. But if you are really lucky, you may get one or two friends who really  values your friendship.. And once you find them, hold them tight and never let go.. Because they are the ones who will company you through the entire journey of your life and be there in your sorrows and happiness.. They are the one who matters… And I guess I'm lucky enough to find three of such amazing friends..

So, there are friends who are the gift of gods and some, who are the curse of the devil.. But I say, make friends with both, but keep your distance.. In that way, you’ll be able to distinguish between people.. And keep only those who matters, closer to you…  :) :)

A Trip By Train..!! :D

Train, a medium of travelling which has become less preferable now a days… People love to travel by air now, as it is less time consuming.. Well, I myself prefer flight to train.. But, sometimes, a journey by train can be really exciting and pretty awesome.. Right now, I'm in a train, travelling back home.. It’s a two day journey..  Well, I guess I chose this medium to return back home for its fun and an exciting experience..  And it’s the second day already,  Its 7am and the train will reach its destination by 4pm..

So, what happened last day..?? I boarded the train at 10am.. After that, it was quite a boring journey for an hour or two.. But then, there was this girl sitting opposite to me.. and we started chatting.. Our conversation starter was a mint chewing gum that I offered to her.. And then, everything went smooth and I didn't even realize how time passed by and it was afternoon already.. I guess at that time, we ran out of things to talk about.. So, I had my laptop with me and started watching movie and she began to write something…  And best part of the first day was the views outside the window..  The wide spread corn fields,  the beautiful village areas, all those other beautiful sceneries… The beauty was just unspeakable..

So, that was the best things of the first day..  And now, it’s the next day, and so far, nothing much has happened.. But, its still a pretty good view outside, though it’s kind of foggy and a little bit cold..

Well, I may not always take a train, but if it’s a long way and I have few days time in my hands to spare, then, Hell Ya..!! I’m gonna take a train again.. :D

We are Physically Challenged, not ALIENS..!!

Today, in the evening, I went to an electronic store to buy a charger for my camera.. When I entered the store, it was very silent, a pretty unusual thing for a store filled with customers..  I wasn't able to find out the reason, until I went to the counter .. There was this very decent looking guy with a smile in his face and people were asking him about products and prices by sign language.. That’s when I realized that he was deaf.. But he was so natural, that you cannot say if he is deaf or not, until you notice very closely.. So, I went to him, showed my camera and asked about a charger.. He took out some cables, took my camera, saw which one fitted the best and gave it to me.. His behaviour was really pleasing.. Then I said thank you in sign language (I know some sign languages, like thank you, hello,  sorry, good bye, yea and no) and he smiled back.. There was something different about his smile, something really unusual.. It felt like a true smile coming from the heart.. Because, now a days, people just smile to hide their actual feelings..They just use it as a mask..

 But, there were some customers who were treating him disrespectfully, as if he came from some other planet or something.. It felt really bad.. But still, he was just smiling at them.. I just stood there looking at him, surprised by his reaction to all those assholes.. And then, he looked at me and smiled, as if he was telling me, “ This is my life and I've learned to deal with it..” .. So, I just simply smiled back, said good bye in hand language and came out..

There are many like him in this world.. People who can’t see, can’t hear, or have some other problems.. I never understand why people differentiate them from us.. We all came from the same past.. We all are humans.. And they are the special creations of god, gifted with a good heart.. To be true, I would love to be friends with such people, to have them around, because, they are far better than all those assholes..

I guess, They Are The Real Humans..!!!! :)

My Funny travelling experience..!! lol.. :p

Travelling, one of the best activities we do.. I love travelling because, I get to meet new people, experience new cultures, and learn a little bit about their languages… But there are also some moments when I hate travelling.. Moments like, when people doesn’t understand what I’m saying , so I have to do some crazy hand movements to make them understand.. Sometimes, I give up and start walking to where ever the road takes me…

Let me share with you, one funny incident.. Few days back, I went to a city.. I checked in a Hotel, rented a cab and visited few amazing places there.. And so, the first day went great.. The next day, I thought of exploring the places near the hotel on foot.. So, I went out and the first few hours were just awesome, until when I realized that I forgot my way back to the hotel.. So, I started asking people about the way.. And none of them seemed to understand what I was saying.. At first, I tried all the languages I knew… Then, I thought of using my ‘Crazy Hand language’, but I got stuck, because, how the hell was I suppose to ask about a hotel with hands…  So I was like “OOohh Damn, leave it..!!”, and gave up and started guessing my way back.. And then, I walked for almost an hour or two, and finally, found my hotel.. I just can’t tell you how happy I was then.. I felt the same way, a person would feel when he’s lost on a desert for days and finally finds some water...

And you know what the best and the funniest part is, Later on I found out that I was just few blocks away from my hotel all that time and I was circling the blocks for almost two hours.. :p

Well, it was really funny but a nice and memorable  experience too… I won’t ever forget that… Never, ever, ever….. !!! :p